One regular guy. Every toy. No filter.
testedbyhim is an editorial-style review platform for men — honest, hands-on feedback on intimate wellness products. There's no team of testers, no lab, no agenda. It's one person buying and using these things, then writing down exactly what happened.
The goal is simple: cut through the marketing and tell you which toys are actually worth your money, which ones to skip, and how to get the most out of the ones you buy.
Personally tested
Every toy on this site was bought or sent in, then used in real life. No secondhand specs, no marketing copy.
Unbiased verdicts
Promoted products are clearly labelled. If a toy doesn't pass, it doesn't go live — I send feedback to the brand instead.
For guys, no judgment
A low-key space to read, compare, and talk openly about what works. No shame, no hype, no performance.
How a review happens
- 1. Get the toy — bought myself, or sent in by a brand (always disclosed).
- 2. Use it for real — multiple sessions across realistic conditions.
- 3. Rate it honestly — across the criteria that matter for that category.
- 4. Publish the verdict — pros, cons, and a clear yes/no. If it fails, it stays off the site.